THE CASE FOR ACTING BEFORE YOU'RE REady
Most people who step away from a defined role face the same question: what now? After leaving a company, finishing a degree, or closing a long chapter, the natural response is to sit with it. To read, reflect, and wait until the answer becomes clear before moving. Weeks pass. Sometimes months. The question stays open, and the cost of that delay is rarely acknowledged.
That process has real value. The problem is when it becomes the only process.
Reflection works best when it has something concrete to draw from. Psychologist Herminia Ibarra, in her research on professional transitions, found that people who successfully changed direction did so by acting first and reflecting second. They tested new roles, took on projects outside their established scope, and allowed those experiences to shape their thinking over time. The clarity emerged through exposure, not in anticipation of it.
Without new input, reflection tends to recycle itself. The same questions resurface. The same options feel equally uncertain. Each week that passes without a concrete attempt allows the question to feel more intractable than it actually is, and the threshold for a satisfactory answer keeps shifting.
This is a recognizable pattern. The brain registers an unresolved question as an open loop, returning to it repeatedly until it has enough information to close it. The longer that loop stays active, the more it draws on the mental resources needed for actual decision-making. More thinking alone does not resolve it. Direct experience does.
The more productive approach is to treat direction as something built through deliberate trial. Commit to one new activity for thirty days. It does not need to be a career move. A different type of project, a skill outside your current area, a conversation with someone whose work genuinely interests you. The objective is to generate real information about what you find engaging versus what you merely tolerate.
That distinction carries more weight than most self-assessment tools, because it is grounded in actual behavior rather than hypothetical preference.
Over time, a pattern becomes visible. Goals that felt abstract start to sharpen because you now have real reference points. Ibarra calls this developing “possible selves” — tested versions of a professional identity, each refined through experience rather than constructed through imagination alone. People who build direction this way do not just find their footing faster. They make better decisions because they are working from evidence.
Has there been a moment in your life where you moved before you had the full picture, and it turned out to be the right call?
References
- Ibarra, H. (2003). Working Identity: Unconventional Strategies for Reinventing Your Career. Harvard Business School Press.